What is Frailty?

  26th March, 2025

Frailty refers to a person’s mental and physical resilience, or their ability to bounce back and recover from events like illness and injury.

As we age our bone density reduces and our bodies find it harder to build and keep muscle.

But frailty is not inevitable.

What can I do about frailty?

There are 3 areas in our lifestyle that we know can help to reduce frailty.

Exercise

Regular exercise, especially resistance exercise (strength) helps to build and preserve muscle to support strength and balance.  It also helps to preserve bone mass which keeps them stronger.  If you are unsure how to increase your activity levels, you may want to speak to a personal trainer or physiotherapist for support.

Social interaction

Having social hobbies, gathering with friends and eating with other people are great ways to keep your mind and body active.

Diet

Eating enough protein, staying a healthy weight and including good sources of calcium and vitamin D in your diet promote healthy bones and muscles.  The body becomes less efficient at using nutrients as we age, so you may need more of something to get the right results.

Protein

We need protein to build muscle.  It’s really important to do regular exercise that use your muscles, As we age, the body becomes less efficient at using protein.

Studies show that people over the age of 70 benefit from eating at least 1g of protein for kilogram of body weight each day and around 1.5g per kilogram if you are unwell or recovering from illness.

This is more than younger people.  

For example:

If you weigh 70kg, you should aim to eat at least 70g protein a day and up to Note: if you are overweight, you should use your ideal body weight for this calculation.

“Muscle loss increases from around the age of 40 at a rate of about 0.5-1% per year.”

Protein

Most of our protein comes from meat, chicken, fish, egg, dairy, pulses, nuts and legumes.  

Ideas

Food Protein (g)
100g (4oz) chicken breast 29
1 Salmon fillet (130g or 5oz) 23
100g (4oz) 15% fat minced beef 21
25g (1oz) slice of ham 4
½ can (200g) baked beans 11
100g (4oz) cooked puy lentils 11
70g garden peas 4
50g hummus 3
125g plain yogurt 5
125g high protein yogurt (e.g. Skyr) 13
200ml cow’s milk 7
30g cheddar cheese 7
1 medium egg 6
25g nuts 5
2tsp peanut butter 3

 

Bone Health

“If calcium is the building block of bones, think of vitamin D as the cement.”

 

Bone contains 99% of the body’s Calcium.  Vitamin D is needed for the body to absorb Calcium.

Our bone mass peaks at around the age of 25.

Low muscle mass, menopause and low vitamin D all contribute to bone loss.  In fact, having a low Vitamin D can reduce Calcium absorption by 10-15%! 

Where can I get my Vitamin D

We get some of our vitamin D from sunlight.  Good dietary sources include oily fish, red meat, liver, egg yolks and fortified foods like some breakfast cereals and margarines.

Where can I get my Vitamin D

Because it is difficult to get enough Vitamin D from our diet The Department of Health recommend that we all take 10mcg Vitamin D per day during the winter months when we can’t get it from the sun.  But if you spend a lot of time indoors or cover most of your skin when outdoors, you should take it all year round.

Calcium

The recommended calcium intake for adults is 700mg per day but if you have osteoporosis you may be advised to have more like 1000mg pre day.

Dairy foods like milk, yogurt and cheese are excellent sources of calcium, and if you eat these regularly, it shouldn’t be hard to get enough calcium.  If you don’t eat dairy, try a calcium fortified plant-based alternative like soya or oat milk.

Fortified foods also play and important role and if you are struggling to eat enough, you can add a Calcium supplement to your routine.

Ideas

Calcium Content in Common Foods

Food Calcium (mg)
200ml cow’s milk (or a calcium fortified alternative) 240
125g yogurt (or a calcium fortified alternative) 180
30g cheddar 220
200g rice pudding (a small can) 198
30g milk chocolate 70
30g calcium fortified cereal 150
1 slice calcium fortified bread 150
60g tinned sardines (with the bones left in) 300

 

A suggested meal plan for an anti-frailty diet

Breakfast: 

A calcium fortified cereal with cow’s milk

Mid morning: 

A bit of milk chocolate with a hot drink

Lunch: 

Baked beans on a slice of calcium-fortified bread for toast (with vitamin D fortified margarine) topped with grated cheese

A high protein yogurt topped with nuts

Mid afternoon: 

Crackers or breadsticks with cheese or hummus

Dinner:

A small chicken breast with garden peas and a few new potatoes (with melted vitamin D fortified margarine)

Supper:

Peanut butter on a calcium fortified slice of toast or cheese and crackers

This information sheet was produced by Rachel Vallis Dietetic Consultancy for the staff and clients of Arbour Companions and Care.

Rachel is a Registered Dietitian with 20 years experience in the NHS and private sectors. She accepts clinician and self-referrals for a wide range of conditions.

 

 

Contact Details

Rachel Vallis BSc RD

Dietitian

W: www.rachelvallis.com

E: rachelvallis@gmail.com

M:  07736285774

 

Author – Rachel Vallis BSc RD.

  • "My friend has received continuous live in care for the last three years from Arbour Care. All the carers they have provided have been very good and the last two carers, who have worked back to back, have been excellent in every way. They have always accompanied her to church and church activities which has been a real blessing. They have become very fond of my friend and she of them. The owner was very helpful in coming to see my friend and assessing her needs before we decided that live in care was appropriate and this was much appreciated as it gave my friend confidence that this was the right thing for her at that particular phase of her life. The staff are extremely friendly and have always been very co-operative. If I have had any queries they have always been extremely helpful and assisted me in every way. I have no hesitation in recommending their services."

    Jacky Breadmore

  • "We used Arbour Care to provide care for our parents while we were on holiday. Our parents were originally reluctant to have someone living in their home but eventually agreed that it was the best option. The care they received was so good, the carer cooked delicious meals (I need some recipe ideas!) she was company for Dad and made it possible for us to enjoy our holiday knowing there was someone available if anything was to happen. We would have no hesitation in recommending Arbour Care to anyone looking for care providers."

    Clare H

  • "The carers have been very good, one even using her free time to visit the husband in hospital and really going the extra mile."

    ED Westcott

  • "The care that Jola provides is fabulous in every respect. I cannot praise her highly enough for the patience she shows with. It was a happy day when she came to us "

    RL Englefield Green

  • "As far as I am concerned, Roberta has been an absolute rock for our family. Completely unselfish in her care and invaluable."

    CB Guildford

  • "We are absolutely delighted with Karolina she is gentle and kind I love chatting to her and really enjoy her company."

    JH Cambridge

  • "Arbour provided live-in carers for my wife for six years from 2017-2023 including the pandemic. My main impression is of a very professional organisation in which owners and staff worked all the time to provide the support the client needed at as high a standard as possible. They gave equal attention to statutory requirements, care plans and staff training and never cut any corners."

    Mark

  • "The support that we have had from Arbour Care has been, quite literally, lifesaving. They found an amazing carer to look after my elderly and disabled husband, who is very experienced, kind and thoughtful. She has made an enormous positive difference to the quality of our lives and I will always be grateful to her and cannot thank her enough."

    Jesse

  • "Arbour Companions & Care's support over the last 20 months has been amazing. They found a wonderful carer to look after my husband who has a physical disability, with additional support provided by her supervisor. As his medical conditions have become more complicated, they have supported the carer and me, finding solutions to keep him living at home. Separately, the conversations that I had with members of their office team have been helpful and professional. I would happily recommend their services."

    AB Chobham

  • "On behalf of myself and my sisters, we would like to thank the whole Arbour team that helped care for our Aunty on and off for the last 2 years. Without their help and support, she would not have been able to stay in her home which she loved. The team's communication was superb and all were professional, caring and helpful. We would highly recommend them."

    Fiona M

ukhca
ukhca
cqc
nsa
alzheimersassociation
strokeassociation
ageUK